Unhealthy attitudes on short-term mission trips. Believe it or not, it’s possible to have a bad, short-term mission experience. Most times, this is not the fault of the situation or the organization. Often, the root cause is the short-termer’s own attitudes and expectations.
To Maximise your short-termer experience, AVOID doing the things on this Top Ten checklist:
1. Keep narrowly focused on ‘’spiritual’’ activities. Since you want to win people to Christ, focus on only the spiritual things. Avoid helping in the kitchen or taking the garbage out of the house… Such things will distract you from your primary task.
2. To tighten up your schedule, eliminate personal prayer and Bible study. You will be so rushed away that you probably won’t have time . Besides , can’t you get all the spiritual food you need from group devotions and from church services?
3. Stay organized and on schedule. Set detailed goals before you go. Establish schedules and refuse to deviate from them. Do not accept delays. Last-minutes changes, visits and invitations. Those things will just keep you from getting things done from God.
4. Help the local ministry workers by pointing out their mistakes. Bring them up to date on what you’ve heard are the latest trends in missions. Some ministry workers, are stubborn. So you may need to enlist some support from the nationals or outreach members for your views about how things should de done.
5. Get involved romantically with someone. Being away from family and friends, makes this the perfect time to get involved romantically. While it may distract you slightly from the work, you will be able to expose national Christians to the your country’s progressive dating customs.
6. Don’t embarrass yourself by trying to pick up the local language. People are always saying that English is spoken all over the world . So, insist that those people use it with you.
7. Immediately begin pointing out your team members’ faults. Time is short. It will be difficult for people to make the needed changes if you don’t help them right from the start. Focus your helpful criticism on team leaders.
8. As you go all out in warring against dangerous germs. Don’t eat any of the local food. To be sure , you may miss some friendly opportunities with ‘’the natives,’’ but you’ll keep those awful germs at bay.
9. Keep your distance from ministries that need your support. Don’t support any ministries. Don’t give in. Sweating over finances builds faith.
10. When you return home, scold your home church and friends... For their lack of commitment, for their weak prayers, and for their inadequate giving to missions. This may be one of the few times you have their deferential. Make the most of it.